Great post Bonnie. I think underneath all the “messaging” is this (false) idea that when have what we want, or “decide” to want what we already have, we’ll be happy.

But there is no perfect state — only perfect for you, for now.

I’ve been partnered and lonely, single and sad, married and blissful, divorced and radiantly happy, traveling with a partner and wishing desperately to be alone LOL …

I think your approach is totally honest, upfront and badass, and when the right relationship develops, you’ll have no regrets.

Keep sharing these stories!